"Yes, I really believe that."
Nah, I don't believe you. I think if you had money on the line, ie, you were the kid's potential employer, you'd act differently. I'll let the line of questioning rest for now.
"I think engineering is a real subject, based on useful knowledge obtained through reliable methods. I don't think theology is a real subject at all, with no truth or utility to it."
Its utility would be contingent on its truthfulness. Theology would be the study of God, and that would obviously include how one can know God. If it achieves that, there is no higher utility, anywhere.
"misuse of math claiming 1+1+1=1..."
But you are an engineer. You should be able to think of an example even within engineering where 1+1+1=1.
"Give me a link to a 'curriculum.'"
One of my contentions is that curriculums are falling short. That's kind of my point. We'd disagree on how they are falling short, but that is to be expected.
"Of course it does. It is a survival-positive trait to generally accept what others tell you - "
That would be your spin, of course. You would probably also argue that secular atheism fares better when you start out young. I would put that also in the category of 'why bad beliefs don't die' but I would have a different reason for that. At any rate, the question is whether or not such and such is true and accurate. I contend that if you don't provide robust explanations early on, it is a simple matter of betrayed trust. If people hear crap when they're growing up, when someone finally comes along with something decent, they'll be skeptical about it. This need not apply only to Christianity.
"They are being sold primarily to atheists - preaching to the choir. Even nonfiction bestsellers typically sell well less than a million copies."
The point is not worth quibbling about. Dawkins's evangelistic fervor and specific appeals to thoughtful Christians is unmistakable.
"The atheists and other non-Christians are buying the books in droves and Christians are generally giving them a pass. "
I would certainly agree with that in one sense of the phrase 'a pass.'
"Therefore, when you say that 'these books do not become bestsellers in a society that understands what Christianity is all about' it does speak to your first sentence. The number of believers who are buying TGD are essentially negligible."
lol, well I do commend you for digging in to find substantiation for your claim, but I'm not sure that's going to settle it. I know quite a few Christians that have read it and also quite a few that have said "there is something to it." And that especially was the case with the Da Vinci Code.
"While immanence and transcendence don't appear to be as unintelligible as the trinity,"
*shrug* I understand all three just fine. For my part, the ridicule of people citing empiricism in their quest to examine the transcendent is the kind of irony that is more than enough to discredit such attitudes.
"I'm game, though you would have to ask the atheists how good of a job you did and the Christians how good of a job I did."
Naturally, that's exactly what I had in mind. It would seem like you're a member at every single forum that has ever existed, though.

We need a 'clean' forum, where neither of us is a member, and obviously it goes without saying that we'll play the game clean and certainly demand cooperation from members here.