"i contend that morality is relative and that absolute morality is a fiction."
Yea, I got that... but 'absolute morality' is essentially redundant. I don't see how it can be otherwise. 'Morality' intrinsically refers to some sort of value judgment about behavior, some assessment about whether certain behavior is good or whether it is bad, and this can only exist if there is some kind of standard. Your use of the terms seems like mere tautology, equating it with simple behavior. Everything behaves therefore all actions concern morality? That seems to be what it amounts to.
So, let's extract 'morality' out of it as having too much baggage to ensure that we are talking about what I want to talk about :) . Let me coin a new word for the purposes of this debate between you and I: sugummafox
Sugummafox: noun, adj. pronounced: "May-Pooh" or, maypoo. Good and proper conduct and behavior.
Imsugummafox: Bad, evil, stinky, conduct and behavior.
And you, my friend, assert that sugummafox is a fiction.

"Nevertheless i invite you to try and demonstrate in some coherent form that this is in fact what i do in this new thread that you mentioned starting. Go ahead."
Sure, here you go:
"This demonstrates, for me, that people often improve their behaviour because of social pressure."
Despite the fact that you think that sugummafox is a fiction, in real life you believe that people can 'improve' their behavior. 'Improve' is another one of those words that assumes some standard, some point of reference. A 90% on a test is an improvement over 80%. Inasmuch as 90% is relatively an improvement over 80% both measures depend on the objective standard: 100%. In other words, in real life you have some notion in your head as to what 100% perfect behavior is in order to detect and measure an improvement. Indeed, you act (and most certainly believe_ that raping only is an improvement over raping and pillaging. Better yet would be not doing either. Best would be not merely abstaining from imsugammafox behavior; the real sugammafox thing to do would be to try to help them, too.
You agree with this. You have said basically as much before. Only then you framed it in the terms more like this, "raping only is better than raping and pillaging and better is not raping and pillaging at all and best is going to help- but by 'better' and 'best' I only mean what happens to make me happy."
And the question of course is why it just so happens to make you happy.

"Again, i invite you to demonstrate this rather than just stating it."
You're just getting back from going beyond abstaining from raping and pillaging. You believed it was a positive good to take the extra step and help people. If you didn't think that some things were inherently sugammafox you'd have just stayed home and tried to mind your own business, safe and contented in the 'social contract' of your fairly protected British society.
"What are the preconditions for this "alternative" to be realised."
It isn't that difficult. If you reject the notion that there is any thing objectively good, then, by definition, you cannot believe that there is sugummafox behavior. Hence, you would not be imsugummafox (for that still assumes a standard) but rather, by definition, asugummafox.
Dannyboy: Do you believe that 2+2=5 is objectively, absolutely incorrect in all conceivable universes? (Where 2, +,=,5, are all defined exactly as they are in our convention

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